Best Man Duties

Congratulations on being chosen as the Best Man!

You’ve been his go-to guy in life, and his wedding day is no exception. Beyond organizing the bachelor party and preparing a speech, here is a list of best man duties to keep you on track as you take on this important role for his big day.

Pre-wedding

Supervise the other groomsmen. Keep them organized and informed, make sure they show up to fittings, etc.
Organize the bachelor party.
Attend all the functions, e.g., wedding rehearsal and dinner, parties in which the wedding party is invited.
Prepare your “Best Man” reception speech.

Wedding Day

Keep the groom calm, organized, and on time throughout the wedding day.
Hold on to the bride’s wedding ring.
Make sure the groom has the marriage license (you will be signing it).
Know how to tie your tie and pin your boutonniere (and help the other groomsmen too).
Transport guests to and from the airport if needed.
Deliver the fee to the officiate.
Decorate the getaway ride—with a little help from your wedding party friends.
Be available. Be a best friend!